i’ve known this guy for about 2 months and like 2weeks ago, we’ve been started to hang out and text like almost everyday(we are not dating). it’s kind of obvious that he likes me and tell his guyfriends about me and stuff…but since sunday, he stopped texting me!!! (well we did talk on Facebook on tuesday)…so i thought he lost interest so my friend talked to him on FB and she asked how we were doing and he said "right now we are just friends but will see how it goes. " and he told her not to trip. i know he just got a job and he’s also a student but he hangs out with his buddy all the time! why would guy who used to text you every single day suddenly stopped texting?
we are in college

when we talked on FB, we just asked each other on how each others doing..and asked other stuffs… and last thing he said was he replied to my question saying " ya… hah" and i waited for him to say smthing for like 15-20mins but he didn’t say anything and i didn’t knw what to say so i just logged off without saying bye…was that messed up?

talk to him more….just see how it goes…..try to be his "best friend"
get your friends to talk to his friends….just try to make a "spark" happen…..
sometimes its not easy but i think it’ll be worth it at the end it you really want it to happen
bonne chance! (good luck in french….yes i take french)

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